Productivity Playlist: May

Hello friends! I'm back with a new playlist for the month. These are currently some of my favorite songs to work to. I hope you enjoy them as much as I do! (Note: RSS and email subscribers will need to click through to my site to access the playlist.)

friday's confession: we've got it all wrong.

It’s not about living OMG THE VERY BEST POSSIBLE LIFE THAT YOU CAN. 

It’s not about KICKING THE SHIT OUT OF FEAR AND GOING OUT THERE AND FUCKING DOING IT.

It’s not about GROWING A BIG GLITTERY PAIR OF BALLS AND DEMANDING THE LIFE OF THE DIVA THAT YOU ARE.

It’s about now. Right now. Thisverymoment.

It’s about the quiet. The contentment.

It’s about the choices you make. The ones you come to in the middle of the night when the rest of the world is asleep and you are awake with a fire buring in you and you decide that when you rise, when it’s time to start your day, you will do it anew. And you will never look back.

But to everyone else, nothing changes. It doesn’t look different. Because it’s inside you – this decision. This knowing. This power.

And when that choice gets made – the one that lights you up, that’s when you start living the shit out of your life, in every single moment.

It’s the mug that reminds you of the time you danced naked on the beach in Mexico. It’s the half and half instead of skim because life is too short not to savor your coffee in the morning. It’s the silent prayer for grace when the world seems stacked against you. 

That’s the secret of what it’s all about: the lowercase moments that make up our character, the every day moments that make us who we are, that have the ability to culminate in a life well-lived.

Which side of the choice are you on?

**Photo and graphic by Erin Cassidy for Tiffany Han Coaching

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thought of the day.

**photo by me; graphic by Erin Cassidy for Tiffany Han Coaching

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I've been wanting to tell you...

I've been wanting to tell you that I know. I know you've been treated badly in the past and that it's hard.

It feels shitty and terrible and yes, it sucks to know that people can treat others that way.

I want you to know that it's not your fault. You haven't done anything wrong.

Not everyone in the world is like this, and, one day, you will be able to let your guard down and trust and love again.

In fact, this is what the Universe wants for you - to trust, to love, to hold that spark of hope once again.

I've been wanting to tell you that even though you don't feel ready, even though you are still stuck in the land of doubt, you are so much closer to that spark than you realize. You are so close that you're almost able to reach out and touch it - grab the light and see its beauty as it fills your hand.

So don't you dare stop reaching, Love. Because that day will be here before you know it.

**photo by me; graphic by Erin Cassidy for Tiffany Han Coaching

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thought of the day.

*graphic by Erin Cassidy for Tiffany Han Coaching

thought of the day.

**graphic by Erin Cassidy for Tiffany Han Coaching

I've been wanting to tell you...

I’ve been wanting to tell you that it won't always be hard.

I know that sometimes it feels like it does, like it’s nothing but hard, like there’s never going to be ease.

And sometimes that’s true. Sometimes life hands you a shit sandwich, and you have no choice but to eat because it’s either that or you starve.

But sometimes isn’t all the times. Ever.

I’ve been wanting to tell you that the ease will come. You’ve been making your way to it all this time, and one day, you’ll look up and say, Whoa. Today it was easy. Just like that.

Trust it, gorgeous, because it’ll be here before you know it.

And it’s going to be glorious

**graphic by Erin Cassidy for Tiffany Han Coaching

friday's confession: My dreams changed.

If you'd asked me 10 years ago what my dream was, I would have said that I wanted to be planning events for a major non-profit. Check.

If you'd asked me 3 years ago what my dream was, I would have answered that I wanted to have a space that allowed me to create every day and that was a creative haven for other dreamers. A safe space for dreaming big. Check.

If you were to ask me today what my dream is, I'd say that I want to change the world. I want to inspire EVERYONE to live the shit out of their lives - in the big moments and in the every day. Starting now. 

If you ask me next year, I might have a new dream. One that's so different, I can't even imagine it right now. And that's what happens - dreams change.

Each step of my journey has brought me to a different place. The learning, the winding path, the victories and defeats - they all create new opportunities and visions for me. And that's okay.

Last week, I said goodbye to my part-time non-profit job and to Teahouse - two dreams I had and loved for a time. And now I'm ready to move on to the newness. I know that I'm destined for something greater.

The terrified excitement I'm feeling is telling me so.

Here we go.